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There is a saying, "If love is an art then I am the artist". When we talk about art many things come to our mind. Painting, drama, singing, dancing, science, etc., there are many forms of art.  The very basic and most important thing about art is that it is very dynamic. We can't fix art in any form rather we can only create and recreate it by our vision and creativity. Art was never fixed and will never be. This is the reason why most of us get disappointed when we do not get apt results. It is our rigid mind and thinking that restricts us from exploring the vivid aspects of art.

You might be curious to know that if this article is about love then why am I talking about art. Have I gone crazy? No, certainly not. Let me put an end to your curiosity. Here I am not talking actually about art rather I'm comparing both love and art. The reason for this comparison is very simple. Both love and art are concurrent with each other. Love is as dynamic as art is. Just like art love too can be expressed and experienced in various forms.

Love is so divine that we often hear people saying, "Love is everything". Do they really mean what they actually say or it is the other way round?

A sad couple sitting together holding a broken heart.


Most people consider love as a parasite. Just like a parasite enters the host and derives its nutrition from the host- actually it is the host's food. The food that is made for the host is taken up by the parasite. Thus, there is nothing left for the host. This cycle continues and gradually the host dies. Similarly, people find love as deteriorating, selfish, stupid, worthless, waste of time and money. If you have found so many bugs in love, my question to you is that, are you really giving your everything to love? Maybe yes or maybe not.

Some of you might not agree with me but it's true that we don't introspect much and point our pointless finger to someone or something else. Not many people are happy after being in love. They want to unlove. Unlove! Do such word exists in the universe! I wonder. The only problem with the people to whom love is a bad experience is that they have now fixed love. They have fixed love to that extent that even if something out of the plan happens it makes them uncomfortable about it. I mean something that is so dynamic is now tried to be fixed in some form. This is the real reason why most of the people are not happy in a relationship. They are unable to accept the changes that happen in love and due to which a relationship suffers.

Very few percentages of the population find love as something they need to keep their life going. They are the people who experience love to the fullest. They are happier than the above-mentioned people. This is just because they have not fixed love into something it is not. They just experience it as it is.

Talking about how to love there are several key points that one should keep in mind. Among those key points, one has been already explained. Apart from that, there are several more things that are needed if you want to love someone till eternity and experience the joy of love.

1. There are no rules to love someone

There are no rules in love.

 As I mentioned earlier that love is dynamic and creating rules for something dynamic is hazardous. Let it be easy. Let it be simple. Let it be pure. Let it be unique. Let it be soothing. Love knows no boundaries and it will flow if it has to.

2. Never rush to love

Two pigeon loving each other in front of Eiffel Tower

Love is not a 2 minutes noodle. It is a whole day biryani. 2 minutes noodle can satiate your hunger in no time but not for long. On the other hand, the biryani is prepared after spending the whole day and once it is prepared even very little of it is enough to satisfy your hunger. Similarly rushing into love is not a solution. Love demands patience. It because today everybody wants everything instantly they find difficult to love.

3. Never judge the other person

Couples fighting with each other. They have judges each other and thus the argument have led to something hazardous.

Judgement is really heartbreaking. Whether it comes from some anonymous person or from our beloved it definitely breaks our heart. The extent of judgement shows the level of understanding the two people have. The more you judge the more you lose the other person. This becomes the root cause of the crack in most of the relationship. So stop judging and start thinking.


4. Never assume

The couple is sitting sad because of some misunderstanding.

We all have many things to say to the person we love but however, we don't gather enough courage to tell them. The most worried about the thing is that we don't even care to think about it. Why are we unable to share something that we want to? The only reason is that you have thought so many things in our own mind that now it's not allowing us to speak our heart to our partner. And when this happens, the real problem starts. Because when we start collecting something we want to say we become like a time bomb. Ready to burst anytime. It's like filling the water tank thinking that it will not ever fill. But this does not happen. It fills and finally, the water overflows. It is us who makes ourselves vulnerable to the problems. Say whatever you want to say. What if the other person wants to hear that from you. It could make a hell lot of difference if you choose to say than to turn your voice down. It will make your relationship stronger.

5. Embrace change

Couple is spending their time under a tree. They enjoy the changes that is happening.

Most of the problems in a relationship come when we are not willing to accept the changes. We forget that this world is subjected to change. Irrespective of our will change will definitely happen. Change does not mean that something wrong is happening. It just means that you are growing in life as a person. Resisting the changes in love and life is so hazardous. With time we need to grow our mind. In order to lead your relationship peacefully, you need to embrace change.

6. Remember you are two different individuals working together

This photo says to love everyone is manner that the person becomes happy.

You all need to understand that you are two different people working together. Don't carry the load of the relationship and love completely on yourself. Talk to the other person and share everything. Love is sharing what you have - even the problems. Carrying the load alone makes you frustrated and as a result, you ruin everything. So it's important to talk to the other person in every situation whether good or bad, happy or sad. You both are two hands-on different bodies that are needed to perform the same task together.

These were some key points that you need to remember. You need to understand love more deeply, in order to have a peaceful journey. Meanwhile, in this journey, you will encounter many problems but handling it with someone you love will make the journey worth remembering. Love is not something you have to do. It is something you will do on your own if you feel like doing for the other person. Forcing oneself creates another kind of problem in the relationship. By this discussion we can decipher that love is an art and we have to explore it more deeply. We need to understand its depth. Once we have a clear knowledge about the dynamics of love it will become a soothing journey for all.

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